Innisfail resident Arleen Frank planned to bike 200 kilometres this past weekend in honour of her late husband Jeff along with as many as 2,000 of her “closest” friends.
The Innisfail widow, along with two of her children and a friend were among those signed up for the Ride to Conquer Cancer event held August 9 and 10 in and around Calgary.
“Jeff was first diagnosed with cancer of the tongue on May 23, 2013,” said Frank. “A year ago, he underwent a 15-hour surgery in August, removing part of his tongue and lymph nodes in the neck area. After the surgery, Jeff kept a positive attitude and never complained. We all truly believed he would conquer his cancer.”
A month later, 53-year-old Jeff and his wife signed up for the Ride to Conquer Cancer to support the Alberta Cancer Foundation, which had provided much needed resources during his recovery.
“During the fall it looked promising for Jeff, until early December when the doctors found that his cancer had spread to his chest and one lung,” said Frank. “He was given six months to live, but quickly deteriorated and died two weeks later on December 17.”
The Innisfail widow noted that her family of six children, including Jeff's two children from a previous marriage, provided support during his fight with the disease.
“Since Jeff's passing, my stepson Tyler and daughter Lindsay have signed up for the 200-kilometre ride to give back,” added Frank. “To date, Team Frank has raised close to $13,000 for the foundation. I want to be able to help with those who have been diagnosed with cancer and those who have to support those who have been diagnosed. All of the money raised from the Ride to Conquer Cancer will go to Albertans who use cancer centres in Calgary and Edmonton.”
Frank has picked up the torch for cancer research, signing up for the CIBC Run for the Cure breast cancer event, in addition to doing the two-day bike ride.
“This weekend will be tough,” said Frank prior to the ride. “On the 15th, we will bury Jeff's ashes at the Innisfail Cemetery, and the next day, ride in his memory. It will be an emotional weekend, but one we need to do.”
Frank said she is “anxious” but looks forward to getting through the weekend with her family around her.
Her husband's passing has left a lasting impact on her.
“When you hear that people have been diagnosed with cancer you are sad for them. When one of your family members is diagnosed with the disease, you realize how awful it really is and how final it can be,” said Frank. “That's where my family and cancer support team came in.”
Frank noted that Jeff gave selflessly during his life, and that “we want to continue that with our participation in the cancer ride on his behalf.”
While the Ride to Conquer Cancer was held August 9 and 10, donations can still be made at www.conquercancer.ca under Team Jeff (Alberta).
