It is hard to discuss COVID-19 without first defining Ageism.
Those most at risk from the serious consequences of this pandemic are people over 65 years.
The news we read and hear seems to reflect negative prejudices toward seniors for which both seniors and others often seem to be unaware.
The term “boomer removers” heard at the onset of this pandemic plus the obvious chronic under-funding of long-term care facilities in some provinces, reinforces the feelings of prejudice expressed toward seniors.
Ageism is defined as prejudice or discrimination based upon a person’s age. Ageism usually pertains to seniors but can include younger persons as well.
Ageism is in the same category as racism, sexism, etc.
Today’s pandemic represents one of the most difficult periods since the Spanish flu 100 years ago. To help our understanding as to how to overcome negative attitudes and policies, it is necessary to understand the feelings they actually represent.
Doing so, can help us come through these challenging times with increased understanding and empathy for all citizens.
Fear may be one of the most significant emotions felt by both young and older people alike. However, we may fear different things.
Seniors may be afraid of succumbing to this serious disease, of dying alone, of not being able to help children and grandchildren alike. We seniors are used to giving hugs, cards, money and prayers to our loved ones.
Young people have different circumstances that may cause them to be anxious…COVID-19, the loss of schooling and friends, even working can produce anxiety.
Students may fear the loss of educational opportunities or having to repeat classes.
Other young people may fear not having the careers of their dreams. Young adults in the COVID-19 era might worry that they no longer are able to support themselves or their families.
And young people can be afraid of death too – that of their parents, grandparents or even of themselves or their friends.
Expressions of fear in both younger and older people can range from displays of anger to tears. Other people will feel great anxiety.
Tragedies experienced during this pandemic may instil fear and heavy hearts in many caring people.
Every day events such as grocery shopping, going to the doctor’s office etc. can create additional negative feelings.
How do we cope when another customer stands in front of the soup shelf forever or examines every apple (do you know how many there are?) when we are in a hurry or fearful about exposure to COVID-19?
Do you quietly ask if (s)he can please move along or are you afraid this person becomes angry if we ask them to move?
An encouraging sign that our health -- including our mental health -- is being recognized is the $53 million the Alberta government has made available to implement more online phone and in-person mental health and addiction recovery supports.
Recently the governor general and well know previous astronaut advised keeping calm and focus only on what we can control. Great advice for us all. Together we can get through the pandemic of 2020 together!
For information and help:
• Alberta Mental Health Help Line is available 24-7 and toll free. Offers confidential support for mental health concerns. 1-877-303-2642
• Kids Help Phone - Alberta connect to 686868.
• Crisis Text Line Alberta connect to 741741 or Alberta 211 – free (150 languages available) Text 4 Hope
• Mental Health and Addiction COVID-19 Community Funding Grant
Age Friendly Committee of the Olds Institute
